Aren’t you a Tree of Solomon ISLAND? Are you gullible and easily influenced by People suggestion?


A strange custom exists in SOLOMON Island. To cultivate more land, tribes of Island doesn’t use AXE to cut trees. Instead, they gather around a tree and curse it. Every passer-by curses it severely, and within a month tree fell down.

Is it real? Yes. You can Google it!

Does it Relatable to humans? Read to explore!



Do humans shrivel like TREE OF THE SOLOMON ISLAND?

Something similar to SOLOMON ISLAND  was said by the dictator of GERMANY.


"MAKE THE LIE BIG, MAKE IT SIMPLE, KEEP SAYING IT, AND EVENTUALLY THEY WILL BELIEVE". - Adolf Hitler

Many often friends/family made fun of their peer and kids. They pass heart-piercing comments and assume it won’t cause any harm, comments like
1- You would never amount to much.
2- Calling by funny names.
3- Why you even try?
4- Failure is your companion.
5- You are a JINX.
6- You and irresponsibility are synonyms.

These are Individuals taunts, but collectively, our society spread many lies and are accepted as truth.



Some of the societal lies are

1- Good people suffer a lot while perpetrators of crime flourish.

2- Spirituality and Money has an inverse relation.

3-  Urban people are heartless/mean.

4- All men are dogs.

5- All the girls are pretty, cute and innocent!

6- Keep trying until you succeed.

7- Having Wealth is a testimony of bad deeds.

8- Intellectualism is a cause of Sorrow.

I observed many lies are so fragile, lacks logic still they flourish. I wonder about the rationality of human beings. 

“Would I ever be able to do something?” My friend asked me with skepticism.

The person is capable and intelligent to achieve whatever he wants if he works for it. Almost every day he hears from his friends/ family/ peers or strangers, which can be summarised as “YOU WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO MUCH” sometimes explicitly and often implicitly. 

His words validate that humans-being does shrink when cursed for a long time.




In such a scenario, who is the culprit?

What we often say under “JOKES” category might hurt an individual intrinsically.

Why do people make fun of someone and then laugh?

What is OKAY for you might not be OKAY for others?

What is a joke for you might become a reason for person trauma!

Even, Fathers behaved in a stereotypical way, they believe that their sole responsibility towards their children is to feed them and provide money.

Society doesn’t understand that the FATHER’S SOLE responsibility isn’t limited to only money making and feeding their family. They had to provide emotional support for his child. FATHERS too behave in a stereotyped way, as per societal instructions, how a father should be? 

Disgusting, Isn't it? 

Coming to societal lies. If all men are dogs then why would any men come on the street during “RAPE CASES”. Similarly, if all the girls are very honest, innocent etc then “FAKE RAPE” cases must not be increasing at an alarming rate!

Spirituality and Wealth are the opposite, how? Spiritual person mind chatters less, thus he must be able to work
efficiently and add more wealth. Spirituality is PEACE OF MIND and doesn’t mean you need to practice celibacy.



Intellectualism is a cause of sorrow! You solve a problem effectively once you understand its intricacies. Thus your
intellect solves the problem. Then how it would cause sorrow?

Problem-solving makes you happy? Isn’t it so?

A very famous Myth regarding urban people is that “They are mean/heartless”. Really? They too are humans. Yes,
I agree that they are busy but it is the necessity to survive in the URBAN and this must not be a credible reason to tag a whole urban society “HEARTLESS”. 

The curse mentality has killed many innovative ideas, caused more harm to civilization than any nuclear attack. Sucked hopes from the lives of people to do something for the betterment of society.

So next time, If someone curses are degrading you emotionally or you begin to doubt yourself. Take a halt.
CONVINCE YOURSELF that your success depends on your intrinsic motivation, inspiration, and Hard-work.

You are a human being, Simply ask your cursers, “What you will get, Even If I amount to much or nothing”?

They won’t be having a satisfying answer. Your questioning will stop your enemies to demoralize/curse you.

You are a HUMAN-BEING with RATIONALITY.  Not a TREE OF SOLOMON ISLAND.


Remember what Lao Tzu had said 

“Care about what other people think and you will be their prisoner forever”.

PRACTICAL WISDOM

1- Tree in Solomon Island fell down when cursed consistently.

2-  Your joke might become a reason for someone trauma. Enjoy but not at the cost of someone's emotions.

3- Societies spread many lies collectively.

4- Don't shrivel by someone curses, think rationally and avoid such people and comments.

5- Remember Lao Tzu words, "Care what others people think and you will be their prisoner forever".

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